We experienced some version of this one other evening. This person we installed with mentioned, several times, just how much he likes really women that are petite. Now, I don’t think I’m “fat” but I’m not “small. ” I’m kind of a mfat. We never feel fat.
How come this remark bug me? We wondered. Often, my ex girl would find other ladies appealing and i did son’t mind. I’m open to your indisputable fact that individuals might have numerous kinds, that simply because somebody is into — say — blondes doesn’t suggest they’re not into me personally. But their remark actually remained beside me.
1st summary for me, he can’t get a girl he’d really like, so he tolerates my not-petite body that I jumped to was he’s settling. But… that also dis actually attracted to me personally (and, I’m usually great at reading people. ) Therefore, we wondered, if he’s interested in me, how does he keep working on about these slim women he’d instead be fucking?
And, i do believe the clear answer is… dating women that are thin element of theirI’m wired to get small females appealing, when one crosses my course *BAM* we get switched on. Perhaps Not my fault.
But being drawn to someone outsot so thin girl had been providing him emotions of shame/creepiness in which he had been seeking to mitigate those emotions by reinforcing the narrative andnormal searching women, which means you’re low status. Minimal worth. Unlovable.