I experienced that I happened to be poly in my own profile. She seemed open-minded to it, then again whenever I really came across her for supper, basically the whole date had been her challenging the thought of poly and challenging every good reason why i might be poly. My moms and dads are divorced, which might have show up at some time. She stated something such as, ‘Well, possibly I’ve simply had an example that is really great my moms and dads are incredibly in love, but i really do think it is feasible to simply love one individual for your whole life. ’ I happened to be like my moms and dads relationship and exactly how I happened to be raised has nothing in connection with that at all. Recently, a woman asked if i’d want to consider venturing out on a romantic date sometime. We stated, well, just in case you’re maybe maybe not okay with this particular, i simply want you to keep yourself updated that i’m polyamorous. She simply reacted with, ‘Ugh pass. ’ There’s other individuals who are weirdly okay along with it. I guess I’ve had numerous negative experiences that whenever i’ve a confident one it is very nearly shocking. ” —Thomas
“My most common experience that is negative guys usually presuming i am down seriously to hook up, or that i am just searching for a laid-back relationship because i will be polyamorous, that isn’t constantly the truth. You have individuals who appear interested at first, then fade when they understand they cannot manage non-monogamy. Continue reading