They are harmful stereotypes that won’t just create your black partner uncomfortable, they’ll further marginalize them.
You need to desire to date an individual as you were enthralled by their вЂњexotic waysвЂќ (honestly, are you doing an anthropological study on black culture because you like who they are and have compatible views and interests, not because their race is the next thing to do on your bucket list or? DonвЂ™t treat me personally like an artifact).
Then perhaps you are well on your way to showing a black woman that you want to date a complete person and not a stereotype if you answered no to these questions and you think those assumptions on black womanhood are downright absurd (hint: they are! Continue reading